Using Meal Time to Evaluate Your Kids’ Social Skills

The family dinner table is a place to be intentional to develop communication and people skills. Dine together often.   It is extremely important that we take inventory of our own conversational skills and those of our children.  Family album photo from 2001, kids range in ages from 1 – 12. Family Fondue Night… a longer…

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Training Ahead: What about the Interrupter?

Today, I’m going to talk about another type of TRAINING AHEAD: Anticipating potential situations that could occur according to observations in patterns of behavior and specifically training ahead to know how to wisely handle them. Have you ever been with friends where  someone dominates the conversation? Or the wife continually interrupts the husband? Or someone “one-ups”…

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Teaching Tip for Gettin’ ‘Em Independent

I came across a few pictures that illustrate an important teaching tip that makes mentoring our kids MUCH more EFFECTIVE and INDEPENDENT. Teaching tip: Don’t Block Their View. Make sure you are in a position where you are not blocking their view of the very thing you are trying to teach them. I see this…

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Keepin’ it Real for the “About” Website Page

You can read an updated “about me” here but I have kept this in tact as it represents where my family and I were within the first few days of beginning Cultivating A Home. This post does give different details than the current “about me” page. So, read both if you have an extra few minutes…

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Scripture Memory – Put to Creative Tunes

Circa 2000. John, Alexis, and Kelsey. Something that I started doing when the children were wee little thangs… was to memorize Scripture.. put to our OWN tunes.. while trying to laugh along the way… making it a fun experience and memory. The picture above shows a little of what it was like. We’d memorize a…

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“Fun Mom Alert”

On Facebook yesterday, I nominated MYSELF for a “FUN MOM Alert.” It’s something that I usually write in the comments section, under OTHER moms’ photos or posts on Facebook, when I see that they are clearly doing something FUN with their children. I just simply write “Fun Mom Alert” and leave it at that. Yesterday was one of those days for me, so…

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Psalms: “Turnaround of the Heart”

I’ve spent several years, sloooooowly ENGAGING the Psalms. I used the word engaging on purpose to better describe that I was not just merely reading; I was diggin’ in to this rich book of the Bible. I was INTENTIONALLY looking for the characteristics of God. I was also asking “Just WHY is THIS particular Psalm…

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Training Ahead: Church Behavior 1

We’ve all sat in church near a family that was blind to their noises and commotion. You know what I  mean…  the candy wrappers, the feet kicking the back of the pew, the sound of markers squeaking or crayons going back and forth on paper… and that’s not even to mention talking, laughing, getting up and down…

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